Judith Powell is a retired teacher, mother, and grandmother from Victoria, British Columbia, Canada. She loves traveling, surfing, sea kayaking, gardening, quilting, and reading voraciously! Â
Well, Iâm not really hanging ten toes over the end of a surfboard while flying across a wave face, but I am in the waves âsometimes on the waves, sometimes under them âand having a blast surfing in the sixth and seventh decades of my life!Â
It all began with a blow-up alligator, a borrowed wetsuit, and the endless waves of Chesterman Beach in Tofino, British Columbia, Canada. I had longingly looked at my adult daughter and son and their friends, skimming across the surface of the waves on their surfboards for years before I plunged in myself and flailed around for an hour or two on that alligator.

It was invigorating and filled me with even more longing. Around that time, I wrote a poem about it, thinking I was âtoo old, too lateâ to don the âsleek black skinâ and âwalk on water and fly across liquid energy.âÂ
I Still WishÂ
I am not a Surfer
too old
too late
to don the slick black skin,
and wait,
wait, for the moment
to rise,
And fly
on liquid energy.
In that moment
of wind and wave
and want,
I wish.
And nowâŚ
In the moment
of wind and wave
and want,
I still wish.
I wait and wish
to catch
that surge,
to feel it,
to know it,
that elemental power
of the cosmos,
a wave.
And then, the day before my 60th birthday, a friend of a friend offered to take me out on a board for a lesson, âa quick session.â Lying on an eight-foot board in another borrowed wetsuit, I paddled like crazy âand caught a wave, flew across the water, getting only to my knees, but staying balanced and feeling the powerful rush âI was hooked instantly!
Within three weeks, my birthday present to myself was a new wetsuit with booties, gloves, a rash guard, and even a used board that my son and I bought together.

Later that summer, I took a private lesson and spent over a week practicing every day while my husband and I camped near Tofino. A few times, I âpopped upâ and actually got my feet under me and stood, and IÂ instantly fell off into the shallow water. This was going to take some time, but just being in the water with waves sweeping past was so exhilarating. I was determined to keep trying.Â
At that time, I was a high school teacher, and on the staffâs first day back, we shared the events of our summer. Three fellow women teachers were so intrigued by my story that in October, the four of us rented a house near Chesterman Beach, and I introduced them to surfing.
The evening we arrived, the waves were massive, and they all turned and looked at me with saucer eyes that said, âWhat are you getting us into?â I insisted they take a lesson from Surf Sisters, a women-run company in Tofino, to learn both the techniques and the safety aspects.Â

The waves were small enough by the next day for that to happen, and by the third day, they were almost glassy. While none of them got beyond their knees, they had a blast and were hooked. Sharing those days with women I âknewâ but didnât really know, who trusted me, who shared laughs and stories and feelings over wine and good food and walks on the beach, was the start of a sisterhood that is still strong today.Â
By the following spring, we had 13 women come on what would be the first of many trips to Chesterman (we found a BIG house to rent!). Because the trip was about surfing, overcoming hesitancy and fears, and experiencing the absolute joy of being truly in the waves, I insisted that everyone had to at least get into a wetsuit and go in the water, even if all they used was a boogie board, not a surfboard.Â
One woman was so delirious with joy that she managed to overcome her claustrophobia about getting into a wetsuit. Others were quite taken aback by how much fun they had getting tossed about in the wavesâwe were never more than chest-deep on a sandy, rock-free bottom.
There were shouts of âpaddle, paddle, paddle " to time the catching of a wave and arms-up cheers when they did so. It was magic. We had many more trips to Tofino and quickly became known as the Surf Sistas. Some dropped away over time to other interests, but a core of nine Sistas remains today, sharing time with walks, golf, games nights, beer tastings, celebrating birthdays, travel, and the ups and downs of life in general.Â

But of the core group of Sistas, Iâm the only one still surfing, sixteen years after catching that first wave (Iâm also the oldest by more than a few years!). I now own a much better board and a couple of wetsuits.
Iâm financially fortunate enough to be able to afford family camping trips and share house rentals on the beach with friends âIâve recently introduced my kayaking buddies to being in the waves instead of on them! I have kept track and been on 56 surf trips since that first time, mainly to Tofino but also to Maui and Mexico a few times. Â
All of which means Iâve had lots of time to perfect my skills âNOT!!! I do not, in any remote way, look like those lithe surfers carving up waves. But I have improved steadily over the years. I can now catch most waves I go for and can stand and ride frequently âthough, most of the time, not gracefully.
I only do beach breaks (no rocks), and it surprises most people when I reveal that I am a bit afraid of the water. I rarely go beyond where the waves break into white water â not crazy about my feet being unable to touch the bottom.
Iâm not a strong swimmer. I never surf alone. And I know when conditions are not safe for me, when the waves are simply too big or too strong. When that happens, I just stand and stare and feel grateful for such majesty.Â
The Tofino beaches are about a five-hour drive from my home in Victoria on Canada's Vancouver Island. No small amount of money has passed through my hands in sixteen years to indulge in my passion. But every penny of it has been well-spent, in my opinion.
Why? How is my soul fed from being tossed around in water that is around 9 degrees Celsius in winter and a âbalmyâ 13 degrees in summer and autumn? Â
Well, you donât feel the cold when you are in a good wetsuit. It is invigorating and heightens all of the senses - think cold water immersion therapy that so many do now.
I have a subtle pride in my surfing, in still walking into the water carrying my board, being able to time and catch waves, knowing how to quickly rise to my feet, and finding the balance point. It doesnât happen all the time, but when a good wave catches, and you rise up and feel its power as you fly across the water, it is truly â a big Ocean O.â To be in direct touch with the elemental force of the universe âa wave, in this case, a liquid one âis to be in the absolute presence of the moment, of here, and now.Â
My adult kids and four grandkids all surf âit is so joyful to be near them in the waves, cheering them on âand recently, riding the same wave, facing my granddaughter, grinning at each other. Cheering on friends who choose to use boogie boards (easier than surfboards) when they catch waves that sweep them all the way to shore is exciting.
The camaraderie of friends, both in the water and après-surf, fills my bucket. I get so much pleasure from introducing friends to the waves, from hearing their celebratory cheers and seeing their grinning faces, and knowing from experience that they have overcome hesitancy and fear to get to that state. Â
At seventy-six years of age, every time I go surfing, I wonder if this will be the last time. When I started at age 60, I thought if I got five years, Iâd be doing well. I got five âthen it became another five years and another five.
I hope to continue this for many more years. As long as I can pull on a wetsuit (and pull it off after!), I will âsaddle up,â wax my board, and head into the water, and hope for one more wave to carry me to shore, to âwalk on waterâ and fly with that liquid energy.Â
Here are my tips for anyone first starting out with surfing:
- If you are inspired to try surfing, do it. But do it safely.
- Wear a wetsuit in cold water. It will protect you from hypothermia and also provide some buoyancy.
- Take a lesson from a reputable company to learn about rip currents, protecting your head from flying boards, wave etiquette, and efficient techniques. It's well worth the money spent and generally includes a wetsuit and board for the lesson.
- If a board is too unwieldy, use a boogie board - they are cheap to rent and can give a good, fun ride close to shore.Â
- Never surf alone. Respect the power of the ocean.Â
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Hi Judy. what a wonderland, inspiring article. Coincidently, I have come across your article on my 76th birthday. Your article made me think of areas of my life where I have not had the courage to step outside the box of my fears.
My son loves surfing but his passion for the surf is one I have never been able to relate to and your article so eloquently allows me to understand his connection to the surf.
I am also uncomfortable in or on the water.
We moved back to the island almost four years ago and live lakeside near Duncan. The first year we were here, many mornings, a young neighbour, with her dog sitting on her board would paddle along the edge of the lake in front of our house. I would see her in the morning sunlight and think, how I would love to be out there, like her, doing my morning yoga stretches.My husband bought me a paddle board and he encourages me to just try it, but my fear of falling and the water prevents me from even trying.
That paddle board, sits out on the deck of the boathouse mocking my fear. I Never put it away because, âout of sight out of mind.â
Thanks for your article, maybe next spring I will step out of the box and actually give it a try.
This is such a timely message. Iâm about to turn 60 and Iâve just booked myself on a 5 day learn to surf course (half days) in Lanzarote. Iâm so excited but scared at the same time. I have heard that there may be a few rocks under the water on the beach we are going to. This worries me. Is this a BIG problem?
Keep surfing!
Thank you for your inspiring story. I have been wanting to try surfing and needed a little nudge.
Dear Judith, thank for this wonderful story! I remember breaking into tears on the Lahaina breakwater as I saw those strong, beautiful women surfing for the first time. I surfed many times in Hawaii after that. Years later you invited me to share the joy of Chesterman and it was magic for me once more. Unfortunately, I have a condition that doesnât allow me that pleasure any more, but I will never forget. Surf on Judith!!
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